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Your Love Life

Your Love Life

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Remember that relationships don’t always look like they do in the movies or on TV, and they take work. Explore this section to learn more about relationships and decide what you do and don’t want.

Is My Relationship Good for Me?

We have all asked ourselves this at one time. Think about your boyfriend or girlfriend. You want things to be good with them, but sometimes it feels hard! It can be hard to know if a relationship is healthy, unhealthy, or even abusive, especially if you haven’t dated a lot.

Remember: healthy relationships require respect, trust, and open communication.
When you’re looking for a relationship, what qualities are “must haves” for you, and what are qualities that are not okay in a partner?
Here are some ideas to get you started.

How Can I Create a Fun and Healthy Relationship?

No one is born knowing how to be the perfect partner. Relationships, good and bad, can be hard, and we can all use help making our relationships stronger. Below are some skills that are important to a healthy relationship.

  • Communication: Being able to talk about your desires and concerns with your partner should deepen your intimacy and trust. It’s really one of the most important relationship skills you can work on. If you’re going to pick just one, pick this one!
  • Conflict Resolution: People argue even in the best relationships, so learn how to resolve your conflicts together in a safe and respectful way.
  • Sexual Decision Making: You are allowed, and should be supported, to make choices about the things that you do with your body. Feeling good about the choices you make around sex is important.
  • Breaking Up: The reality is you probably won’t date the same person your whole life. Sometimes ending a relationship is the best move you can make. Breaking up safely and respectfully takes skill and support from people you trust.

It's up to you to treat your partner with respect. Check out some do's and don'ts for healthy relationships here.

How Do I Know If Someone Is Right For Me?

How do you have the relationship of your dreams? Sometimes when you meet someone you really like, you want to jump into getting serious right away! Like NOW! Everything is so exciting and feels so good, why not? 

This could be the start of a great relationship--or you might find out this person isn’t right for you. At first, you might be so excited about meeting someone you like that you don't notice that they are controlling, disrespectful, or just that you don’t actually have many common interests. So focus on getting to know someone before things get too serious and you feel stuck in a bad relationship. If something doesn’t feel right to you or makes you wonder, don’t ignore it.

Learn More

Here are some great online quizzes and games to help you learn more about yourself and your relationship:

A great place to find out information about relationships for teens by teens is Sexetc.org.

Planned Parenthood and Scarleteen also have great information to help you figure out if you are in a healthy relationship.